Female Domination and Female Superiority - What Are They?
- by Anonymous Female Author
When people hear the term female domination it seems to be in complete contrast to today's male dominated society. Contrary to popular belief, female domination did not start with dominant women or feminists. Rather men came up with the term female domination in order to categorize the male sexual and social desire to submit themselves to a woman.
Originally I was just curious about female domination, but then it transformed into twenty plus years of studying and practicing female domination. Over the years I learned a lot about what exactly female domination is and the desires of men to be submissive. Today I feel I'm kind of an expert on these two subjects based on my years of study, observation and participation. One thing I learned is the reasons behind some men's desire to be submissive toward women. In the sexual realm an individual's core nature is expressed through their sexual desires. For most individuals it is normal for a man to want to be on the bottom during intercourse but it is perverted for a man to want to be spanked or whipped by women. Although both of these desires have been found to stem from the same core desire. This is the desire for the man to be sexually dominated by a woman. For each man it will be expressed differently, but every expression as the same deep-rooted motivation. This motivation is gradually evolving and the man that simply wants to be on the bottom during intercourse today will soon develop a desire to have a woman spank or whip them.
Once I came to understand the natures driving both men and women this led me to understand the natural dominance and supremacy women have over men. In turn this gave me the key I needed to unlock and understand the submissive desires men have. The different fantasies through which these desires are expressed don't matter since they all have the same root and core. The male gender desire is namely to be dominated and ruled by someone of the female gender. This is why no type of expression of this submissive nature surprises or shocks me. Through my male clients I have heard it all and my own participation has shown me all aspects of the female domination lifestyle.
Man have a desire for activities such as corporal punishment, forced feminization, humiliation, strap-on play (such as receiving a woman's rubber phallus), water sports (such as golden showers or forced enemas) and other D&S activities (domination and submission). Men desire to worship the woman by tending to their physical and sexual needs which is considered body worship. They also desire to be made into a domesticated service for their wives. All of these sexual and submissive desires come from the common thread of longing for a loving female authority. For me this is the actual definition of female domination. Female domination is all about a loving female authority. Most men want and need this. The outward expression of a man's need for loving female authority is manifested in specific fetishes or desires.
Men are responsible for coming up with terms such as female domination, female supremacy and female superiority in an effort to explain the desires they experience towards the female gender. Women can capitalize by using these same terms.
The words are simply a verbal picture. Sending the right signal to a male mind will bring up the programming which was placed into subconscious from the time the man was a child. The majority of FemDom art, pictures and images are created by men in an effort to show how powerful women are from their point of view and how weak they feel when in the presence of women. These images actually represent what a man feels inside. The artist uses pictures to express their inner feelings in a way similar to the way a poet and song writer use words. A woman who dons a fetish outfit or says a term or uses her voice in a certain manner can become the image that touches on male submissive nature and triggers their feelings and desires, causing them to become helpless and weak. At this time a woman can interact with a man who has no barriers and defense mechanisms. This means a woman can interact with the man in a more meaningful way. Since a woman can now see herself as the man does true intimacy and bonding can occur. The woman now sees that in a man's eyes she is a Goddess.
So it is important that women don't become offended by FemDom artwork, videos or literature no matter how graphic they may be. Rather it is best to look closely at what the male gender is expressing. What are men really conveying when they show men collared and bound at the feet of a woman? Why are men drawn to sits such as The Other World Kingdom? What can you learn about male submissive nature through these pictures?
If a woman gets over her prudish and self-righteous ways to look closer and examine the message rather than the content they will be able to gain great insight into the psyche of the man. Regardless of the content, what is the message underlying all these expressions? Isn't the male gender simply recognizing their need to submit to someone of the female gender? Is it a man's inner child, crying out to be disciplined and trained by someone of the female gender? Is it the man's true nature coming out in order to surrender themselves to those of the female gender?
When it comes to female domination women must keep in mind the fact that men need it. The man is almost always the one who introduces a woman to the female domination lifestyle. A man who is courageous but has submissive desires will introduce his female partner to female domination. Why is this done? Because men want to and need to be in submission to women. While society and religion tell men different, there is something deep within them that wants to surrender to a powerful woman. As men age the desires grow stronger and men will often spend many hours dreaming and fantasizing about female domination. Some men pursue these desires and struggle with them while trying to come to terms with them, but they won't be able to come to terms with them until they have a true relationship with a woman that can lovingly explore these desires with him.
On the other side of this dynamic is the woman who embraces their dominant role and allows it to come out in their nature. These women end up loving this lifestyle. I am constantly amazed by how many women end up loving it so much they say they wouldn't go back to be being submissive to a man or having traditional sex even when they were hesitant about being dominant at one time. For women the female domination lifestyle is liberating and for men it can also be liberating since it is fulfilling a yearning within them. For both men and women the female domination lifestyle can be a win/win situation.
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